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December 29, 2007

After Christmas Thoughts

Filed under: Keeping It Real, parenting — Chris @ 11:51 pm

I have had to return three Christmas presents so far.  One was because I bought the wrong thing, so totally my fault.  But the other two were things that broke.  Broke!  Almost immediately.

These were not inexpensive toys either.  They were two big ticket items for two of the children who received them.  Children who are now very disappointed.

One of the items was a wooden parking garage made by a company with great business practices, who use wood from forests they maintain, all non-toxic paint etc.  I thought I had found a winner.  I wanted to cuddle with this company, that is how warm and fuzzy they made me feel.

Sadly, the toy was not out of the box for half a day before it broke.  When I brought it back to the store the saleswoman told me that  I was the second person to return the toy since Christmas for the same reason.

It was enough to make me shake my fist in the air in front of the overpriced chi-chi toy store crying “Et tu?  Et tu?”

My kids toys might be lead free, but now they are in broken pieces.  “Oh sweetie, I am sorry your toy is broken.  The good news is you can go sit in the corner and gnaw on it safely!”

I am seriously tempted to make all my children’s presents for next year.  I won’t let my complete lack of skill in this area stop me.  “Oh sweetie, don’t think of those as a pile of twings from the yard.  They are like Lincoln Logs only better.”

December 27, 2007

The FOOD!

Filed under: cooking — Chris @ 10:18 am

WE-ATE-IT

I had to take a photo of one of our buffet tables so I could share the food that I did end up making.

At the last minute we ended up going to the grocery store and buying a 20 lb turkey to go alone with the ham. I am so happy that we did it, the ham would not have been nearly big enough for everyone. Also, I love turkey.

We baked the ham the night before, sliced it, and then just reheated it the next day. That way we had room for the turkey in the oven for the entire Christmas morning.

I made the mashed potatoes around 11am and then transfered them to a crockpot set to low. After an hour or so the potatoes started bubbling around the edge. So I turned the heat off, stirred them up really well, and put the cover back on. They stayed warm and perfect for the rest of the afternoon.

I steamed broccoli and poured melted butter and lemon on the top of it.

My sister in law brought sausage and peppers, the traditional Italian-American Christmas food. And Easter food. And Thanksgiving food. And any other gathering of more than 3 people.

She also made a gorgeous salad in a trifle bowl. At least I think that is what the pedestal bowl is called. I loved the presentation.

Then I made a fabulous Italian sausage and bean soup. It was so good I really didn’t want to give any away as leftovers. Mine, mine, mine! Isn’t that the Christmas spirit?  I’ll share the recipe soon.

My mother-in-law made stuffed mushrooms, something that I could not eat due to food allergies, but everyone else raved about them.   They had to be placed on the main buffet table because the appetizer table was filled with other goodies.  Let no one say we aren’t a family that likes to eat.

December 25, 2007

Though It’s Been Said, Many Times, Many Ways…

Filed under: Uncategorized — Chris @ 9:36 am

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…Merry Christmas to You!

December 22, 2007

Time to Bake the Cookies

Filed under: cooking — Chris @ 11:48 pm

cookie making begins

It is so nice to have children old enough to help.

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Don’t worry, we keep the finger-licking-good ones that she makes separate from the rest of the cookies.

December 20, 2007

YUM!

Filed under: Just For Fun — Chris @ 8:57 pm

I was so sad thinking that no one was answering my plea for tasty ideas, when I noticed all of the comments had gone to the spam folder.  Mmmmmm, so many good ideas.

A couple of people have asked about the food allergies, and to be honest on the holidays I cook allergen filled food for everyone else.  Sometimes I try to adapt the recipes, but then there are some that can not be adapted and that is fine.  I can’t expect everyone else to eat cardboard.

Although, I am thinking that if I served cardboard meals for a couple Christmases in a row that maybe people wouldn’t come over anymore and I would not longer have to cook huge dinners.  Oh, I kid.

My husband’s family is bringing over food, which I am trying to look at as a blessing.  So nice!  So helpful!  Except that it isn’t.  We lost one of our wall ovens to a fire earlier this year, so I am doing this holiday with only one oven.  We had hoped our kitchen remodel would be done in time for Christmas, but it hasn’t even really begun.  So I told everyone this year to please bring things that did not require going into the oven, but they really did not have to bring anything.

I found out that my mother-in-law is bringing some baked fish dish dish.  And her countertop convection oven.

Did your jaw just drop open and you say, “Huh,” also?  Yeah.

December 18, 2007

Picture me without a head

Filed under: Keeping It Real — Chris @ 11:06 pm

running around in circles, screaming with my non-existent mouth.

Only seven days left before Christmas and I still have so much too.  Not the least of which is planning my Christmas menu.  So, internet, I am asking you for advice.

What do you make for Christmas that is 1) easy to prepare, 2) tasty, 3) can feed a small army, and 4) Did I mention easy?

Give me your ideas.   Please.

December 14, 2007

Raising Children with Integrity

Filed under: Children, Instilling Values — Chris @ 11:03 pm

Today I read this article.

The gist of the story is that a contractor was working on a person’s house, that he has been friends with since high school, when he came across a box hidden in the walls. The box turned out to contain Depression Era money totaling $182,00. The bills are so rare, however, that the findings are estimated to be worth $500,000.

And like all things involving money, the story deteriorates from here with the contractor and homeowner fighting over who the money legally belongs to.

One would think it would belong to the homeowner, but the lawyer for the contractor is using the so-called “finders-keepers” law to assert his clients claim. The contractor is asking for 40% of the total value.

I am not sure what I feel about this case other than I think both of the people involved are being greedy. And stupidly wasting money on lawyers instead of working out an agreement themselves. If you come into a windfall like that you are ahead of where you were before not matter what. Suddenly, both people involved feel that they are entitled to money that they didn’t even know existed moments before.

When my husband came home from work tonight I asked him if he had read about the case, he had not, and we began discussing it. Both of us are on the same page. Why wouldn’t you share the money?

One of the things that I hope I instill in my children is to always put people before things. The way that you would feel from sharing that money with a joyful heart, would out weigh anything you could feel by spending it or putting it in the bank.

So how do I work at raising children who hold these beliefs.  By modeling the behavior for them.  We help our neighbors whenever we can.  We involve our children in our charitable contributions, discussing with them that not only are we lucky to have what we have, but with this good fortune also comes responsibility.

And I am definitely teaching them to do their own home renovations.

December 13, 2007

The Boy in the Bubble

Filed under: Just For Fun, On The Web — Chris @ 12:06 am

This young man is trying to set the world’s record for time spent living inside a snow globe.  Which shouldn’t be too difficult since there actually is no previous record for the amount of time spent in a snowglobe.

Video and audio are streamed live over the internet from the snow globe.   Watching it becomes oddly addictive.

He has a laptop, a television, and a cell phone.  Which initially made me think, ‘Hey, I could do that!’  He does not, however, have a bathroom.  For bathroom time he has 51 minutes allotted per day.  Let’s hope the bubble keeps any stomach viruses out.

December 12, 2007

Deck the Tree With Traditions

Filed under: Children — Chris @ 9:40 am

This week we pulled out the Christmas ornaments and decorated the tree. At this point I am pretty much a spectator in the festivities. The kids love decorating the tree all by themselves and I let them. Here and there I might be called upon to put an ornament somewhere that the littler kids can’t reach, but for the most part I just sit back and take photos.

One of the traditions that we started was buying each of the kids their own ornament every Christmas. I know many people do this. I love the idea of them taking the ornaments with them one day when they have a family. I hope that they will remember the stories that surround certain ornaments.

That my oldest was completely and totally obsessed with Thomas the Tank Engine when he was 3 years old. That my daughter was obsessed with the Disney princesses. Another son who loves to bake. And another who was in love with that dreaded big purple dinosaur. Yes, I have Barney ornament on my tree. I just remind myself every year that it isn’t all about me.

Then put it more towards the back of the tree.

When all the stress of the holidays begins to get to me, the shopping, the gimmees, the obligations and expectations, I remind myself that the real Christmas is nothing about those things. In the end my children aren’t going to remember what Christmas parties they went to or even really what most of the things under the tree were from any given year. They will, however, remember the traditions that we built as a family.

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December 10, 2007

High Price For Healthy Food

Filed under: Ideas, cooking — Chris @ 10:56 am

As someone who strives to buy healthy, primarily organic foods for my family I wasn’t all that surprised by this study just released by researchers at the University of Washington, which drew the conclusion that healthy eating costs more when compared calorie for calorie to junk food. Calorie for calorie comparison is what makes this study unique.

I say not surprised because junk food is laden with empty calories that don’t fill you up for very long. So for $1.50 I could buy an organic apple (100 calories) at my grocery store or I could buy a box of a dozen Little Debbie snack cakes (2400 calories).

Based on his findings, a 2,000-calorie diet would cost just $3.52 a day if it consisted of junk food, compared with $36.32 a day for a diet of low-energy dense foods. However, most people eat a mix of foods. The average American spends about $7 a day on food, although low-income people spend about $4, says Dr. Drewnowski.

But when I got to this part of his findings I had to pause. What exactly is considered low-energy dense foods? And $36 per day per person of food? That seems awfully high to me. Especially since the average American spends $7 per day. Is the average American diet that far off of the ideal?  And I KNOW that I do not spend $36 per day per person in my family.

I then went researching down the bunny trail online and found this interesting statistic:

In fact, in just five weeks, the average American will have earned enough disposable income to pay for his or her food supply for the entire year

We are living in a society right now that is constantly searching for the cheapest thing, which is why places like Wal-mart thrive. Everything is inexpensive. There is almost a competitive edge to grocery shopping in some circles. Who can buy their groceries for the least amount of money. Who can feed their family on the least amount of money. It drives me nuts.

That is not to say I don’t appreciate being frugal or finding good sales.  Nor will I buy extravagant out of season items like a pint of raspberries that costs $7.  I do always buy fresh fruit and vegetables.  And if one kind of vegetable we like happens to be on sale a particular week I’ll buy it.

According to the USDA, Americans spent 9.9 percent of their disposable personal income on food in 2005, down from 23.4 percent in 1929. So the percentage of our incomes that we are spending on food has decreased sharply over the past 80 years, and yet we all complain bitterly about how much money we spend on groceries.

Personally I have no problem with an occasional Little Debbie’s snack cake. But you won’t find me buying processed chicken nuggets, spaghetti-o’s, or Lunchables. I don’t mind my junk food being junk food, but I can’t tolerate junk food trying to masquerade as real food.

Can you tell that I am currently reading the book Omnivore’s Dilemma by Michael Pollan?  I am only about one fourth of the way through the book.  It is fascinating, though I fear my husband is getting tired of me talking about corn all the time.

I wish I had a nice conclusion to wrap this post up with a little bow on the top, but I don’t.   I have become more mindful in the past couple of years of what I am buying and bringing home to my family from the grocery store.  In large part this was due to severe allergies that require me to read every single food label.  Something that I recommend to everyone, whether they have allergies or not.  It amazes me how products that might seem similar might have vastly different ingredients.

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