So you give your kids an allowance and you want them to learn how to budget their money. How do you encourage them to save some for a rainy day without coming out like a tyrant? How do you make it seem like a good idea is a world that is filled with instant gratification?
One of the things that I noticed with my older children is that they thought I bought everything I wanted, whenever I wanted. I am not sure where they got this idea from. Could it be that they think my greatest hearts desire is laundry detergent and peanut butter?
I have been sharing with my children purchases that we chose not buy or things that we are saving for. We are in the market for a new vehicle. I have let them in on the discussion of financing, down payments, and car payments. And why we will not buy a $50,000 new vehicle. Notice I didn’t say CAN not. I think it is important to make the distinction for our children between what they can do and what is the right thing to do. Helllllloooooo, foreclosure crisis. Just because you have the money or can borrow the money does not mean that you should.
In a world where plastic credit cards are the norm, and every other commercial on television is supporting the buy now, pay later mentality, it is important to equip our children with the tools that they need to be financially successful.
Do you remember the first time that you realized what compounding interest on credit cards really was? I do. It was in a college class I was taking, that had nothing at all remotely to do with economics or math. The professor brought it up and the entire classroom looked at him with blank stares. He then went on to explain that the $30 sweater you had to have yesterday would end up costing you fifty gazillion dollars if you only made minimum payments.
It was a sobering experience, probably because most of us had already bought that $30 dollar sweater yesterday, along with a few pair of jeans, a couple of dinners, and a killer pair of shoes.
I hope that by being mostly transparent with the purchases I make and the saving that my husband and I do, that my children will avoid this pitfall. I have encouraged them to save their money for big ticket items that they would like, rather than blowing their money on many small impulse purchases. And for large purchases like bicycles I have enacted a matching fund policy. For every dollar that they save toward their goal, I match it with a dollar.

