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July 30, 2009

Back to School Supplies

Filed under: Children — Chris @ 11:26 pm

This year will mark our first foray into the public school system.  Already things are surprising  me.  Things that make me say, “Hey, back in my day we didn’t do that!”  My day being obviously when dinosaurs roamed the Earth.

The latest thing to surprise me, after the no backpack rule, is the supply list that each child has to fulfill.  Wow, really?  When did this all happen?  And when did it become so extensive?  Ziploc bags, kleenex, scissors… Do the scissors wear out from year to year?  Also I found it odd that the stuff is communal

I picked up the lists today at the Office Supply store and truly was shocked at how much money this is all going to cost per child.  I know I am not the only frugal person out here, so tell me where do you buy your children’s mandated back to school supplies?   Is it less expensive to follow the sales around?  Or does it end up costing more in gas and aggravation?  Help a Mom out here, please.

July 29, 2009

The Wedding Dance

Filed under: Just For Fun, On The Web — Chris @ 9:40 am

Has everyone seen the JK wedding entrance dance?  Sometimes I feel like I am the last person on earth to see anything or hear news.  They are just a couple from Minnesota who along with their family and friends decided to have an unusual entrance to the church altar.

Click here to watch the youtube video.

I dare you not to smile the entire time.  The unadulterated joy of all the participants made me cry.  And I do not cry easily.  It was beautiful.  The people were not professional dancers, but none of that mattered.

It is the sort of video that makes you believe in happily ever after.  And kind of makes you wish you were invited to that wedding.  I bet it was a whole lot of fun.

July 27, 2009

Man on the Moon

Filed under: Children, On The Web — Chris @ 10:23 am

Did you know that July 20th was the 40th anniversary of the Apollo 11 landing on the moon?

I have one child who loves space, stars, planets, and all things related, however tangentially, to them.  And so we have looked through many sites on the Internet, watched the actual footage from the landing, and watched the movie Apollo 13 and The Right Stuff.

NASA has a web page dedicated to the 40th anniversary of the Apollo landing on the moon.

NPR story to listen to, only 3 minutes long so good for those shorter attention spans

National Geographic has a quiz to test your knowledge of the Apollo 11 mission.

National Geographic also has the original article that ran in their magazine in December 1969, which I find fascinating.  It easy easy to forget with all of the advanced technology that we have nowadays what a big deal this truly was.  And how exciting it was for the entire world.

July 23, 2009

At What Age Can Kids Babysit?

Filed under: Uncategorized — Chris @ 8:14 am

Have you all read about this recently?  A mother allowed her 12 yr old daughter and her daughter’s friend, who was also 12, to bring an 8,7, and 3 yr old children to the mall.  The 3 yr old was strapped into a stroller.   When the two 12 yr olds went into a dressing room to try some clothing on, mall security was called and the children detained until the police arrived and the mother.  The mother was promptly arrested.

Most of the comments and news reports have been in favor of the mother and not the prosecutor.

I know personally I was babysitting at 12 years old. I don’t think that it seems young. 

The website Free Range Kids has a great post on this topic. 

What do you think?  Is 12 too young to babysit?

July 21, 2009

The Happy Meal Turns 30!

Filed under: Uncategorized — Chris @ 3:18 pm

Man, I am old because I clearly remember when the Happy Meal was introduced. 

The Happy Meal is such a simple concept, hamburger, fries and drink all contained in a little box that had games on the outside.  But the real excitement, the thing that made the Happy Meal stand out and caused every other chain to follow suit, was the toy.  It wasthe first fast food restaurant that realized catering to kids would draw in the adults.

The earliest toys were simple.  Now the toys are all tied into movies and are highly commercialized, which loses something for me.  Yes, I am old and crotchety.  Now get off of my lawn.

The most popular series of toys was the Teenie Beanie Babies, which were initially released in 1997.  I remember how crazy people went for these, lining up at the drive-thru window trying to get every single one in the series.  Our personal family favorite was the Inspector Gadget.  It was the first toy that I remember that was multi-pieced so that you had to keep going back to  McDonald’s in order to complete the toy.  That part, was not my favorite since we rarely ate there.  There might still be pieces of that toy in the bottom of our toybox.

The newer Happy Meal has more options and less calories.  Most kids opt for the chicken nuggets over the hamburger.  Were chicken nuggets even invented yet in 1979?  I wonder.  I certainly do not remember eating them and my childhood was filled with all the processed foods one could possibly have eaten.  In fact, it would not be an understatement to say that in the 70’s my family embraced the processed foods as a food group.

Happy Birthday to the Happy Meal, for better or worse it is an American Icon.

July 20, 2009

Five Chore Ideas for the Under Five Year Old

Filed under: Ages 2-4 years, Chores, Ideas, parenting — Chris @ 8:28 am

Oh this is the age when they want to help you.  More  than anything they want to be your sidekick, to be useful and helpful.  The reality is that once they are truly capable at doing the chore they want to do, they will no longer have any desire to do it.  At this age you are just instilling in your child a habit of helping.  The reality is that nothing they can do cannot be done by you more efficiently.  So keep that in mind when they are doing their “chores.”

1) Help with the laundry. 

Preschoolers are great at sorting clothes by color, stuffing clothes into the washing machine, pushing the button to turn the machine on.  My 4yr old son will knock down anyone in his way to reach the washing machine and be the one to push the on button.

He also likes to help with the clothes after they come out of the wash.  I will let him put the clothing into pilesbased on who it belongs to.  He likes to match socks.  He can carry towels to the linen closet and dishrags to the kitchen.

2) Unload the dishwasher. 

 I will remove the knives from the silverware basket and let him put the silverware away in the drawer.  He loves doing this job.  Depending on his mood it will take him 5 seconds or the entire afternoon.  Not surprisingly the amount of time he spends directly correlates to how well organized our silverware is.

3) Washing dishes in the sink. 

Pots, pans, and plastics are no match for my 4 yr old and his soapy sponge.  This chore isn’t so much about cleaning anything as it is about keeping him busy.  I am hoping that maybe when he gets to be the age of his teenage brothers he will remember the miracle of running water in the sink that one can– GASP– wash their own dishes in.

4) Setting the table. 

It is never to early to start teaching them how to properly set a table.  My son will put the placemats and silverware in each spot.  He can also carry the plates one by one to the table and put them down.

5) Meal preparation. 

Children who help prepare meals are much more likely to eat them.  My son loves to help make salad. I swear that the salad spinner was the single best purchase I have ever made for the kitchen, in terms of being used my the kids.  My lettuce has never been more clean.

And the most important thing… never let them see you redo their work.  You want them to feel confident and proud.

July 18, 2009

Long Hot Summer Days?

Filed under: Children, Ideas, Just For Fun — Chris @ 9:12 am

Here is a fun idea to do with your children, ages 2-102. Though I assume none of you probably have children that are 102 years old.   First, it is a project that all of them will do happily.  Second, it will keep every last one of them busy for a good while.  Third, it is a snack.  What’s not to love about it?

Homemade Ice Cream in a Bag

1 tablespoon sugar
1/2 cup half & half
1/4 teaspoon vanilla

6 tablespoons rock salt
1 pint-size ziploc bag
1 gallon-size ziploc bag
Ice cubes

Step One: Put the first three ingredients into the pint sized ziploc bag. Seal well. Check and make sure that is is sealed well. Check again.

Step Two: Put the pint sized ziploc bag inside of the gallon sized ziploc bag.

Step Three: Fill the gallon sized ziploc bag with ice and rock salt. (This is why you really want to make sure the smaller ziploc bag is completely sealed. Salt leaking into your ice cream…ewwwwww.)

Step Four: Shake your bags.

After about 5-10 minutes the half & half will thicken and you will have ice cream!

Take the small bag of ice cream out of the larger bag — you may want to wipe the bag off to get rid of the salt residue, especially for younger children who are not as neat. Then, grab a spoon and eat it right out of the bag.

Enjoy!

You can also add other ingredients to your bag such as chocolate syrup, sprinkles, mini-chocolate chips, crushed oreos… well, you get the idea.

July 16, 2009

Handipoints and Facebook

Filed under: Uncategorized — Chris @ 10:04 am

Did you know that Handipoints has a Facebook page?

Yes, it does.  Click here to become a fan.  It will give you another place to spend time on the Internet, because Heavens know there are not enough places, right? 

I finally realized that when people were emailing and telling me that they left a comment they meant they had left a comment over THERE.    It is a great place to get some of the questions about the Handipoints system answered from other parents.  To share ideas or frustrations about chores in general.   To give a little brag about your children and the awesome job that they are doing.  We all LOVE to do that, right? 

Have I mentioned that my 8 and 10 yr old son’s have started a lawn care business?  They are so earnest and adorable that I want to squeeze them and kiss them while they are weed whacking the sidewalks.  But I restrain myself.

Personally, I know that hearing what other families are doing with regards to chores and motivation helps to motivate and inspire me.

So go on over and join.  If you don’t have a Facebook account sign up for one.  How will you ever know what the cousin of your former 3rd grade teacher’s best friend’s son’s girlfriend is doing these days?

Being a Quitter

Filed under: Children, parenting — Chris @ 9:15 am

We have all heard the old adage, “Winners never quit, Quitters never win.”

But does this apply to our kids and their activities?  What is the point where we will allow them to quit something that they signed up for that maybe is not going the way that they imagined it.  Do you make your children push through and continue the activity?  Or do you allow them to quit?

I had one friend, a long time ago– I have been at this parenting things for awhile, who let her children quit activities all the time.  In fact, it was more than norm than the anomaly.  There were countless times that we signed our children up for activities together and say that we were going to carpool only to have them drop out a couple weeks later.  It was annoying to all involved. 

On the other hand I also have known people who forced their children to do an activity that weren’t happy with for YEARS before finally allowing them to quit.  Surely there has to be a balance somewhere between these two extremes.  However, finding that balance can be tricky.

For the most part our family rule has been that if you make a commitment you follow it through.  Though most of our commitments are short lived.  So a 6 week long science course at the nature center that I paid good money for?  You will go to all six weeks and make the best of it. Even if it has turned out to be boring.  You wanted to play a sport?  Well you have made a commitment to the team and you will remain on the team and go to practice and games, with a good attitude, until the season is over.   Decide that you want to take piano lessons but after a few months change your mind?  Well, after setting a specific time period for re-evaluation, you may quit. 

I think I have achieved a balance that I am happy with between letting the children have a say in their activities and teaching them what it mean to commit to something and follow through, even if they are not thrilled with it.  My children might not always be happy about it.

So, what do you think?  Are there specific rules in your family regarding activities?  Will you allow your child to stop an activity mid session if they are not happy with it?

July 14, 2009

Summer Vacation

Filed under: Children, On The Web, parenting — Chris @ 8:40 am

Yesterday I was in the store looking for some new swim goggles for my son.  Yes, the blonde one who would lose his head if it were not attached.  I noticed a horrifying sight.

The summer stuff was being pushed back to the clearance rack and the back to school stuff was prominently featured up front.  ACK!  Summer just started.  Didn’t  it?  I certainly am not ready for the back to school extravaganza to begin.  This is the first year that I will have children in elementary school, middle school, and high school.  Just thinking about all the planning and co0ordinating and lunch packing is making my head spin.  I sure hope that they figure out how to add a few extra hours to the day by the time September rolls around!

But aside from my anxiety over that, I still feel like there are so many things that I want to do with our summer vacation.  Like, maybe, actually GO on a vacation.  We recently moved across the country and landed here right in the throes of baseball season.  Last night was our final game.  After almost 6 months of non-stop baseball we have a lull before the next sports season begins and more importantly before school begins.

People keep asking us if we have been to this place or that place–various touristy sites, lakes, parks, theaters– and so far Ihave had to say that no we haven’t gone anywhere.  But I am looking forward to checking out at least a few places over the next month.

At Motherlode, the New York Times parenting blong, Lisa Belkin tackles the question of whether or not we should get rid of summer vacation as a society.  For the children, not for the grown-ups, because clearly it really is not a vacation for us.

What do you think?  Should we get rid of summer vacation and go to school year round?  Would that help families where both parents work not have to scramble to find summer daycare?  Are the lazy days of summer a thing of the past?

If we did get rid of summer vacation when in the world would children have time to just be children?  To relax and run around the neighborhood with their friends and have no agenda?  To sleep in until their eyes pop open by themselves, to lay on the grass and read a book, to play card games with some friends, to not have any scheduled activities.  The sort of free time that we as adults are always wishing that we had more of.  Time for the children to just be children.

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