Oh this is the age when they want to help you. More than anything they want to be your sidekick, to be useful and helpful. The reality is that once they are truly capable at doing the chore they want to do, they will no longer have any desire to do it. At this age you are just instilling in your child a habit of helping. The reality is that nothing they can do cannot be done by you more efficiently. So keep that in mind when they are doing their “chores.”
1) Help with the laundry.
Preschoolers are great at sorting clothes by color, stuffing clothes into the washing machine, pushing the button to turn the machine on. My 4yr old son will knock down anyone in his way to reach the washing machine and be the one to push the on button.
He also likes to help with the clothes after they come out of the wash. I will let him put the clothing into pilesbased on who it belongs to. He likes to match socks. He can carry towels to the linen closet and dishrags to the kitchen.
2) Unload the dishwasher.
I will remove the knives from the silverware basket and let him put the silverware away in the drawer. He loves doing this job. Depending on his mood it will take him 5 seconds or the entire afternoon. Not surprisingly the amount of time he spends directly correlates to how well organized our silverware is.
3) Washing dishes in the sink.
Pots, pans, and plastics are no match for my 4 yr old and his soapy sponge. This chore isn’t so much about cleaning anything as it is about keeping him busy. I am hoping that maybe when he gets to be the age of his teenage brothers he will remember the miracle of running water in the sink that one can– GASP– wash their own dishes in.
4) Setting the table.
It is never to early to start teaching them how to properly set a table. My son will put the placemats and silverware in each spot. He can also carry the plates one by one to the table and put them down.
5) Meal preparation.
Children who help prepare meals are much more likely to eat them. My son loves to help make salad. I swear that the salad spinner was the single best purchase I have ever made for the kitchen, in terms of being used my the kids. My lettuce has never been more clean.
And the most important thing… never let them see you redo their work. You want them to feel confident and proud.