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August 21, 2008

Whiplash

Filed under: Just For Fun, Keeping It Real, parenting — Chris @ 8:28 am

Did  you see summer fly by?  Where did it go I wonder?   Seems like I was waiting, eagerly anticipating its arrival, and suddenly now it has gone right by.  When was it actually here?

The nights have gotten cool.  The sun is setting earlier.  I have been bringing a jacket to wear at the football field every evening while I wait for my son to finish practice.

I remember as a kid that summer lasted for a long time.  The days stretched out long and going back to school in Spetember felt like you had not seen some of your friends for years, not months.   My son and I had made a list of 100 Things we wanted to do this summer.  Sadly about half of them fell by the wayside.  Some of them can still be accomplished through the fall, like kite flying, and I suppose we might feel like eating ice cream sundaes for breakfast in January. 

This week I read  about the author of the book, 100 Things to Do Before You Die, David Freeman  dying at the age of 47.   His book was the first of the 100 things books, other books followed  by different authors in subsequent years.

“This life is a short journey,” the book says. “How can you make sure you fill it with the most fun and that you visit all the coolest places on earth before you pack those bags for the very last time?”

He visited about half of the places  he wrote about in his book.  The sad irony of his death, after running with the bulls and bungee jumping off of cliffs, is that he would die from falling in his own home and banging his head.

His friends and family said that even though he didn’t get to do everything on his  list that he lived his life the way he wanted to, with no regrets.   I love that sentiment.  I told my son yesterday that even though we didn’t get to accomplish everything that was on our list for this summer, we had fun. 

And really that is what it is all about.

Though I would not mind if time would slow down just a little bit.  It is hard to smell those roses when they are flying by at warp speed.

July 27, 2008

Freecycle, I Want to Love You

Filed under: Keeping It Real, On The Web — Chris @ 7:18 am

I think I  have written before about my local Freecycle group.  Freecycle, for those of you who haven’t heard  of  it, is a  way of passing on items that are no longer of use to you rather then sending them to your local landfill or thrift store.  There are groups all over the country and you only have to check online for the one nearest to you and join the mass email list.   

It is great for items like that old Commodore 64 that has been languishing in the back of  your garage.  It turns out that it really is  true, one man’s junk is another mans treasure.

So that is  how it would work in theory.  The reality I have found is that people will email and say “OMG I have been wanting that Commodore 64 for my entire life.  Please can I be the one to have it!”  Then you will set up a time for them to come and pick it up.  And they never show  up.

Rinse, lather, repeat.  Until finally you get so tired of that Commodore 64 sitting on your front porch next to your front door that you haul it off to the dump.

Also, you will get tired of people emailing the list asking for cars, laptops, computers, flat screen televisions, etc. 

But I think I have discovered a way around this: the Freecycle tag sale.  Like a regular tag sale you set all your unwanted stuff out, except that no money is exchanged for the items.  It seems that the people who actually show up for the freecycle tag sale are intent on taking stuff home.  And you only have to wait around for one afternoon for you stuff to all go to better homes.

At least I am hoping that it works that way for me.  I’ll let you know how  it works  out.

July 21, 2008

Lying About Your Vegetables

Filed under: Keeping It Real, On The Web — Chris @ 5:49 am

I just read something funny in which the writer exposes that most people when asked about their vegetable  intake LIE about it.  Much in the same way that they have determined that people under estimate their caloric intake on a daily basis by as much as 30%, people do the opposite with the vegetable and fruit intake.

According to the experts we are supposed to have five servings of vegetables per day.  How many of us actually do every day?

I wasn’t sure so I found this website where  it lists exactly what sizes each serving is:

  • 1/2 cup of fruit
  • 1 medium piece of fruit
  • 1/4 cup of dried fruit
  • 3/4 cup (6 ounces) of 100% fruit or vegetable juice
  • 1 cup of leafy vegetables
  • 1/2 cup of cooked or raw vegetables

Trying to visualize the serving sizes? This may help:

  • 1 medium apple or orange: the size of a tennis ball
  • 1 cup vegetables or fruit: the size of a baseball
  • 1 medium potato: the size of a computer mouse
  • 1 cup of lettuce: 4 leaves

Huh, when I look at the serving sizes, I think I am doing fairly well.  Maybe not on a daily basis, some days I eat more veggies than others, but I think that it evens out by the end of the week.  The same goes for my children. 

I noticed last week that one of my children, who has been on an “I hate salad” kick for a few weeks, suddenly was eating handfuls of salad right out of the serving bowl after dinner. After he had already eaten his own salad with dinner.  He probably ate an entire weeks worth of vegetable servings in that one meal.  This is  one of the reasonsthat I don’t stress too much about my children’s eating habits or force them to eat food they don’t want.  In the end it always seems to work out.  That if I trust them to trust their  own bodies they will eat healthily.

The website also offers some snacking tips for ideas on how to get all of your servings in per day.  Not surprisingly, potato chips do not count as a vegetable.

July 10, 2008

Gas prices keeping you home?

Filed under: Keeping It Real, On The Web, parenting — Chris @ 10:30 am

Up until a few months ago, I really never considered gas prices as a factor in determining a vacation. Sure, when we drove toDisney World we thought about how much it would cost to drive there, but it was along the same lines as we thought of hotels along the way. A necessary expense, but not one that would stop us from doing what we wanted to do.

Now though, things are different. As the gas prices have climbed closer and closer to $5 a gallon, I weigh the cost benefits of going anywhere. Even more local places. We certainly have not gone to the museums as much this past year, since they are all over an hours drive away. In years past we would go often to take advantage of our membership, the gas prices were not a consideration.

I started wonder, however, how many local businesses are being effected by this, the smaller stores, the people who depend on vacationers coming to their towns.  It seems like a vicous cycle.

This summer we aren’t going anywhere on a family vacation. We are staying home, or having a staycation. We are going to try and visit some of the things that tourists usually do… the local mini-golf places are tops on my children’s list. Maybe even check out a travelers guide to our area and see what things it suggests.  I am trying to think of it as an adventure.

July 8, 2008

Risk

Filed under: Humor Keeps Me Sane, Keeping It Real — Chris @ 10:58 pm

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You know what love is?

Buying your child, who loves board games, possibly the most boring, longest lasting, did I mention boring game in the history of all board games.  And then playing it with him.

Even though his love for board games rivals your very own hatred of them.

Even though it makes you want to give yourself a full frontal lobotomy with the nearest dull instrument.

June 4, 2008

We All Need Reminders

Filed under: Basics, Chores, Keeping It Real, using handipoints — Chris @ 9:12 am

This morning in my email I received the following email:

Dear chris,

Oops, [Your child] hasn’t been doing chores! This is a weekly reminder to ask your kids to login to Handipoints to mark their chores off and claim their points!  Kids earn special prizes in HandiLand for marking off their chores throughout the week.

Keeping up with a routine is hard. That’s why we’ve created easy tools for your kids to track their chores online. Login now with your kids to update your chore charts:  http://www.handipoints.com/reminder.

Regards,
Handipoints Support

I love this feature!  Because honestly it isn’t my children not doing their chores, it is me not finding the time to log in and check everything off.  The weather here has just turned beautiful which means my children are not asking to use the computer.  They want to be outside playing, soaking up the sunshine, hitting balls with sticks wearing uniforms I have to wash constantly.  Oh wait, this isn’t about me, ahem.

Routine is difficult.  When other things change, sometimes everything else seems to fall apart along with it.  I am not sure why this happens.  But yesterday afternoon when I was surrounded by basket after basket of laundry that needed washing, as well as several sets of sheets and comforters, so much so that I could barely walk through my laundry room, I realized that it is not just my children who are afflicted with this.

The job of doing the laundry looked so huge and overwhelming, that I really didn’t know where to begin.  I was half tempted to just walk out of the room and leave it for another day.  Instead I threw a load into the washer, and slowly plugged away all day long.

As soon as each load came out of the dryer I folded it and called the owners of the clothing to put it away.  That way I didn’t have piles of clean clothing folded and co-mingling with the dirty clothes.  Because we all know what happens, the clean clothing jumps into the dirty clothing bins and gets washed over and over again.

Last night all the sheets were folded and put away.  There were plenty of towels already in the bathroom for everyone to use for their baths and showers.  (Of course I had to wash those AGAIN, because the laundry never stops)  But this morning when I woke up the laundry room was as empty as it could ever be.  I folded the last load out of the dryer, made the kids put their stuff away, hopefully in their drawers and not their hampers.

If there were a handipoints for grownups, I’d be cashing in those points right now.  Hmmmm, now that I think about it I might just treat myself to a coffee later on today.

May 21, 2008

Here, There, Everywhere

Filed under: Keeping It Real — Chris @ 9:28 am

Next week is chock-full of dentist appointments for my children.  I am not sure why I do this.  When I make the appointments it always seems like a good idea to group them together.  However, when the time comes to go to the appointments I want to shoot myself in the foot.  As much as I love the children’s dentist I don’t want to spend three consecutive days in their office waiting room.

This is also a crazy month because some of our activities are still going on, coming to an end, but still going on nevertheless.  And on top of that some of the Spring/Summer activities have already begun.  Every single day for the next two weeks we have multiple activities in the afternoons and evenings.  Then appointments in the mornings.

It’s times like this that I wish I had one of those Star Trek  things that could teleport me anywhere.  Or barring that, that gas still cost $1 a gallon.

If you should need me in the next week, I’ll be driving around in my car.  Wave if you see me.

May 11, 2008

Happy Mother’s Day!

Filed under: Keeping It Real, parenting — Chris @ 8:11 am

To all the mothers out there, I hope you have a fabulous day.  Surrounded by your loved ones.  Who hopefully are doing chores for you :-)

My morning began with my 3 and 5 yr olds snuggling in bed with me.  I use the term snuggling loosely, to include climbing on top of my head, tying my hair in knots, kneeing me in the stomach, and fighting over who is laying on what side of the bed.  Nothing like breaking up a preschoolers brawl at 6am to wake you up.

As annoying as it is to be awoken in this manner when all you want to do is sleep another hour or five, the perspective of having older children makes me realize how short this season is.  This is how they show they love me, in part by fighting over who gets to sit the closest to me.  My older children don’t come and snuggle in bed anymore, being their mother is decidedly less physical.  And so I take a deep breath and get out of bed with them.

Really isn’t that what Mother’s Day is all about?  Not the sappy sweet sentimental cards, the handprinted cards, the breakfast in bed, or whatever else the media tells us that Mother’s Day should be all about.

Happy Mother’s Day.  I wish a tantrum free day to everyone.

May 10, 2008

Mothers Are Worth How Much?

Filed under: Keeping It Real, On The Web, parenting — Chris @ 8:11 am

A new study says that a stay at home  mother is worth nearly $117,000 a year, if she were paid a real world salary.  (Working mothers are worth $68, 405)

The eighth annual survey by salary.com calculated a mom’s market value by studying pay levels for 10 job titles with duties that a typical mom performs, ranging from housekeeper and day care center teacher to van driver, psychologist and chief executive officer.   Most of the figure for the salary was from overtime since the job extends beyond the typical 40 hours per week.

What do you think?  I’ll admit that my first thought was that it was not nearly enough.  Followed closely by, I need a raise!

May 6, 2008

But Everyone Else Is Doing It

Filed under: Children, Keeping It Real, parenting — Chris @ 10:48 pm

I have been having an interesting conversation with a friend of mine tonight.  It sort of goes hand in hand with the discussion of free range kids and what we were allowed to do as children.

My husband lived that idyllic (mythical?) childhood where he would go out in the morning and ride his bike, go to the nearby river, play with friends, go to the park, all without ever telling his parents where he was or when he would be home.  I often wonder if some of his stories are tainted with revisionist history, colored with a bit of what he wishes were true.

I was not allowed to do those things.  I had to ask explicit permission to go places and do things.  Reasonable requests were granted, but I was not allowed to go and “hang out” at the mall, ride my bike miles from home with no destination.  We lived on the water and I was allowed to go with a girlfriend and neighbor to the beach, where we would slather ourselves with baby oil and fry our skin nice and crispy.   So it isn’t like I was chained to my bedroom radiator.

Obviously we all have boundaries with our children.  Do you let them go and hang out at the mall with friends?  Do you let them ride to the baseball field and hang out with their friends?  These are examples only.

I trust my kids much more when they are NOT with their friends.  I know I have heard someone else say it before, but when you get a group of boys together it is like their brain power divides.  Instead of two boys having the brain power of 2 boys, they have 1/2 of a brain.  Four boys, 1/4 of a brain.  Something about the mass mentality makes them forget to think.

So I think this is a new area where I am struggling.  It is easy for me to assess if I think my children are old enough to say ride a subway.  But going to a movie without parental supervision, that makes me break out into a cold sweat.

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