Comments on: Deciding On An Allowance

By: Alicia

Alicia — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 23:16:39 +0000

I understand all this but how do I get my handipoints money once I odered it?

By: Missy

Missy — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 15:54:03 +0000

I love the Bank of Mom and Dad!! I will get that start NOW! Something I can stick in my purse and have with us when they want something – no trying to remember how much is in the wallet back home. I like the 1/2 age allowance and attaching points to getting it. Doing things just to do them does not work at my house. This gives a little more responsibility to getting it.
Thanks so much for all the great ideas!

By: Christy

Christy — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 04:16:03 +0000

I have had a hard time having my kids pitch in for the sake of the family too. I spend most of my time with our 6 and 7 year old. I have struggled with their attitudes/backtalk more lately. I found myself asking why are they doing so little and getting an allowance every week? Now they cash in 50 handipoints a week in exchange for their allowance. So they want to earn the handipoints both with helpful chores and better behavior. When we’ve been approached by our 7 year old about a raise in allowance, we just explained that with greater privelege comes greater responsibility…that conversation ended shortly after. I agree that allowance is for the main purpose of learning to be responsible with money. I just don’t want my children to think that they’ll always be given money regularly without some small responsibility tied to it. And now there is no begging in the grocery store check-out line. Just a soft, “Oh man, I wish I had brought my money.”

By: bryantmom

bryantmom — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 04:31:56 +0000

hey I think that this is a very good idea. my baby is 6 and she is just getting into chores and i have been thinking about allowance..so i think i will start with the bank of mom and dad and do the 1/2 her age..because i did not know what she should be getting.

By: ACE3Boys

ACE3Boys — Tue, 06 May 2008 11:52:48 +0000

I WISH I could get my kids to pitch in for the sake of the family. The supporting argument of Mom doing all of those things for nothing makes sense. As a working adult (I’m an at-home Mom), you must do what is required in your job to earn your money. Kids cannot have a real job, so in a sense you are teaching them the responsiblity to EARN their money as opposed to it just given to them. I love the 1/2 your age idea as well as matching funds for saving. Bank of Mom & Dad is cool, too, with the “bank statements”. Thanks to everyone who has posted, I like new ideas!!

By: handipointmom

handipointmom — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 14:29:59 +0000

I agree with not tying their allowance to chores. I feel that since they are a part of the family and household, that they need to learn that they have a responsibility to pitch in. Mom doesn’t get paid for keeping the house clean, doing their laundry, cooking for them, taxi-ing them to various places, why should they get paid? Mom does all these things because she is a part of the family. (if she didn’t, we’d be living in a horrible state!) They should pitch in keeping their things tidy, taking out trash, emptying the dishwasher etc. It teaches them to think outside of themselves. And really, they really do feel good helping out. The beauty of Handipoints is that it is a great motivating tool-they still get to earn rewards-it’s just a motivator. We also pay a minimal allowance (I LOVE the idea of paying 1/2 their ages-never heard that before), that is not tied to chores. It is money given each week so that they can learn to save, budget and buy those things that I absolutely will not waste my money on! No begging Mom. It also gives them a sense of empowerment.

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By: Linda

Linda — Thu, 28 Jun 2007 12:55:33 +0000

My husband and I just started an allowance program with our children (one that was suggested by a friend of mine). Once a month (because that is how often my husband gets paid from his job), they get an allowance of half their age. Their allowance is not tied to any chores as we feel they are as much a part of this family and we are and their support is needed to help run the household. We also feel that the allowance is a seperate tool to help teach them about money and would like to encourage them to save their money so we told them that what ever amount of their allowance they decide to put into the bank, we will match.

By: Jodi

Jodi — Tue, 19 Jun 2007 17:40:34 +0000

Thanks for the feedback on the other post. So…my husband and I disagree about the relationship between the allowance and the chores. My feeling is that kids have chores around the house because we are a family and everyone helps out. I like the handipoints because they can earn things that are free and family oriented that encourage them to actually DO the chores. I believe that the allowance is a seperate tool to help teach kids about money. My husband believes that the allowance is simply a way of “paying” the boys for doing their chores. I do however worry that they might get confused about the handipoints rewards, chores, and allowance. What do you do?? Is your allowance tied to chores??? So, if they don’t do a certain chore do they lose part of their allowance?? Jodi

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