I did make it to the store to buy Easter candy and basket things. The last stop I made was to the Dollar store and I found myself wondering why I hadn’t thought to stop there first. It was a treasure trove of small cheap things.
I picked up a package of carabiners, large magnifying glasses, playing cards, small measuring tapes, calculators, pencils, pens, tiny notebooks, and the biggest hit… slingshots that shoot these little foamy balls.
I was up well past midnight cutting the plastic off of all the toys and stuffing the tiny plastic eggs.
This was the first year that my oldest two sons declined running around the yard to find the plastic eggs filled with candy. I knew the day would come, but thought maybe the lure of candy would keep them at it anyway. And while a small part of me is tempted to say, “awwwww,” and feel slightly disappointed with this whole growing up thing, I love watching the way that they interact with their younger siblings.
I love how they cheered them on. I love how they get excited for their siblings. I love the knowing looks that pass over their youngest siblings head, the looks that let me know they are enjoying their role as keeper of the secret. The looks that show me they think it is pretty cool to be on the other side of the tradition.
Of course none of their newly revealed maturity stopped them from laying claim to a percentage of the candy from the eggs.

One of the things I like most when you write about your older kids is your ability to express sadness over the changes, but embrace them with gladness as well. Does that make sense? My in-laws are terrible at this-they just cry and cry over the changes, wishing for how things were-trying to recreate it.
Enough complaining about them. Way to go Chris! You are very inspiring for me.
Comment by Crisanne — March 25, 2008 @ 10:58 am
That’s so cool. My husband and I both talk about looking forward to when our kids make that transition. We hope we have taught them well, especially in certain contexts like Christmas where the joy of giving is greater often than the joy of receiving. Thanks for sharing. Really beautiful post.
Comment by Lucinda — March 25, 2008 @ 11:26 am